People asked me how can I always be happy. Obviously I can be gloomy sometimes. You need to see that life is not always perfect. We will not always get what we want. What should've happened, happened. Who should've left, left and whatever's thrown you off will always bring you to where it is you need to be. In term of love, just remember, the only way you can fully enjoy the love in your life is to choose to make something else more important in your life than love.